download the pdf at ashow.zefrank.com stefan’s website : www.344design.com i asked my followers on twitter to give me one piece of advice they wish they had received 10 years ago.
1st Grade with Miss Snowden: Advice from a 1st Grader…for free!
May 18th, 2012Oh that second one just melts my heart!
Are those bubble borders not the cutest?! I found those in a set on TPT for $1. Yeah. ONE DOLLAR! They can be found in Ms. Talley’s Store.
You can DL the writing papers by clicking the pic below. They go all the way up to 5th grade because that is what my mom teaches and she wanted to do it too.
Hope you like it!
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Valuable Career Advice for Any Professional | CAREEREALISM
May 18th, 2012Everyone is looking for career advice, especially these days. Here is a list of the most valuable advice about managing your career.
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Need advice: closure before dating again
May 15th, 2012Some of you know my story:
Wife wants to separate – I am devastated
Breaking through after grieving period – progress so far
Timeline: Wife says she wants to separate in Dec. 2011. Numb: Dec 2011. Grieving: Jan-March 2-12. Emergence: April-May 2012
Back in January, my ex and I agreed that we’d separate but remain “true” to each other… we agreed to let the other know of one of us was ready to move on and date someone else, or if one of us knew it was completely over. My ex moved into her apartment in February. I asked it it was over then, and was told she was unsure. I asked again March 2nd and she said “don’t know – still undecided”. I did not ask since. Fast-forward to May and she did not get a manager’s job she applied for, and plans on applying for a transfer which would have her move to another province. So yeah, it’s over.
Here’s my dilemma. I’m not ready yet, but will want to date again in the next few weeks/months. I have always been a man of my word. I don’t feel we owe the other anything, the separation agreement has been signed for thee months, and we’ve been living apart for 4.5 months. So, do I bother telling her I’m looking to date anyone else, or should I even bother? A few TAM members mentioned feeling guilt being with someone post-separation. Part of me feels I should, for my own personal closure and to honour the agreement, but part of me thinks it’s no longer necessary.
I am wondering if I should touch base with my ex about this matter and if: 1) letting my ex know would help me avoid feeling guilty, 2) if guilt with the first person after my ex is inevitable anyway, or 3) does it matter at this point?
Thoughts?
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Emily Pilloton: Advice for Design Graduates: Start Now
May 15th, 2012The following is the text of a commencement speech given at the University of California-Berkeley on May 13, 2012.
Good evening… Class of 2012, faculty, families, and friends. It is an absolute honor to address you today.
However, I feel fairly unqualified to be your graduation speaker: I was not a great student during my time here. I am not really a good “adult,” either, as I have no savings account or long-term health insurance. Also, I am not primarily interested in addressing you as architects or designers this evening, but first and foremost as citizens, and only then, as members of a professional community.
So with these disclaimers in mind, I want to share two stories with you. They are not stories of success so much as adventure. Take them as cautionary tales or advice or just stories of a girl who, like you, graduated from this institution and is still trying to figure out the best modes of operation in design and in life.
First story: Almost five years ago, I quit a corporate retail design job, selecting paint colors and doorknobs, moved in with my parents, and started a nonprofit design agency with no business plan and $1,000 in my bank account. Many people called this impulsive.
I started Project H Design out of frustration: I wanted design to matter. Yes, I wanted to contribute something with my skills, but I also wanted to be challenged. I wanted to push myself and push design to have to grapple with the complexity of reality: of real people, real places, and real problems. I stood in the Secretary of State’s office on January 8, 2008, holding my incorporation documents in my hand, with no business savvy, just a mission statement; no slush fund, just my own checking account. And yet, from impulsiveness, we learn the importance of starting.
Having put that stake in the ground, in legal corporate form, I was forced to figure it out. In our first two years, Project H completed over a dozen projects in six countries; I wrote a book about humanitarian design, learned how to be my own publicist and accountant, got in an Airstream trailer and drove to 35 cities in 75 days on a Design Revolution Road Show, and picked up a border collie puppy as an impulse buy in Texas along the way. What some call impulse, others call initiative. Ideas are worth little without action. The best way to start is simply to start.
I said these exact words to an industrial design student I met in Detroit, who was working on a project with the local homeless population. She asked me, “What’s the best way to get started, to make this a real enterprise and not just a school project?” I gave her the stupidly simple answer: “The best way to start is simply to start.” Now, two years later, her organization, The Empowerment Plan, is thriving. She has a viable financial model, a manufacturing facility, and has employed numerous homeless individuals using design as the vehicle. She recently sent me an email to thank me for my advice, but I can take no credit. The bravery is all hers: the hardest, but always the most important thing to do, is simply to start.
Second story: In 2009, my Project H partner, Matt Miller, and I, uprooted the organization from our headquarters in San Francisco (aka our apartment), moved to a town of 2,000 in the deep South and became high school shop teachers. Most people, including my own grandmother, called this crazy.
We moved to Bertie County, in the impoverished and uber-rural northeastern part of North Carolina, the land of tobacco, cotton, poisonous snakes and some heartbreaking remnants of slavery-era racism, on the invitation of the visionary public school superintendent. He believed in design, and asked us to help prove that creativity could be a path to progress in a community with a severe allergy to change.
Over the past three years, Matt and I have gone deep, designing and building new computer labs, a weight room for the football team, plastering countywide graphic campaigns on the sides of buildings, and most importantly, becoming public school teachers ourselves. Our program, Studio H, teaches high school juniors creativity, critical thinking, citizenship, and construction skills to equip them as job- and college-ready individuals. They do this as part of their school day, earning high school and college credit, and a working wage during on-site construction.
Our Studio H students have designed and built three public chicken coops, a 2,000-square-foot farmers market pavilion for their hometown of Windsor (they also started the market as a local enterprise), and two iconic roadside farmstands that double as community bulletin boards. Matt and I may be trained as architects and designers, but in Bertie County, we have also tutored students in pre-calculus, become licensed school bus drivers, rescued stray hunting dogs, fought with the school board, written college recommendation letters, run marathons, organized events with the mayor, attended Rotary club meetings, and accidentally started saying y’all. We take little credit for what our students have built: it was their vision for their hometown. They were given the key to the city for building the farmers market, many are the first in their families to graduate high school or go to college, and they are now leaders of their own community.
At the opening ceremony for the farmers market, one of our students said to the mayor, “I hope to bring my children here someday and tell them that I built this.” And later he said to us, “Studio H made me see the world, and myself, differently, and I will never be the same.”
Many called this move to the deep South crazy. We definitely found it uncomfortable, as we were pushed to our physical and emotional limits. But from discomfort, we learn that we can only know the richness of life through active experience.
One of the quotes we love most comes from Thoreau’s Walden: “I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life… to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner… and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience.”
We cannot merely talk, we must do. Matthew B. Crawford, who wrote the fantastic book Shopclass as Soulcraft, describes this as not merely knowing that, but knowing how (for example, not only teaching our students that the weight of concrete is about 150 pounds per cubic foot, but more importantly how to design, engineer, and pour a concrete foundation footer). It is not merely enough to be well-read, to know the facts, and to be able to recount them from a conference podium. We must know how to do things, and the only way to learn how, is to do.
Do something with all you have learned; something for others, something for your family, for the planet, for fun, for love. Just do something. Seek not the glory but the task, not the limelight, but the sunlight. Do not sit idle or live your life through a screen. Stop tweeting and start contributing. With our high school students, we ban the use of two phrases: “I’m bored,” and “I’m done.” You too, must be never be either.
Despite the seeming misguidance of these two moments, they are somehow the proudest of my life (in hindsight, of course). The irresponsible, impulsive and uncomfortable teach us how to be optimistically disobedient, how to start against all odds, and how to be present and go deep in the world. My hope for each of you is that you seek out and find yourself in similarly irresponsible, impulsive, and uncomfortable situations which solidify your strength of mind and hand as a citizen and as a designer.
Of course, you are graduating into a professional community that is currently facing some challenges: some say growing pains; some say identity crisis. Don’t freak out, but architecture boasts the highest unemployment rate of any industry — you may have seen the recent article that broadcasted this fact. And many of us find ourselves in a crisis of conscience, seeking to shift our role as bearers of a privilege for the 1%, to ambassadors of a creative resource for everyone.
The good news is that as architects and designers, it is in our fabric to believe in possibility and in building a better future, so in the challenges of our changing profession, we should see only a context in which to find new solutions, to trade in new currencies, and to rewrite our own job descriptions. With our skill-sets, what else can we do? Where can we contribute? Can we carry our toolboxes into unexpected roles, disguised as high school teachers, public policy makers, and strategists, to places where creative thinking would be an untapped resource? The thing that will ground us and help us define the next phase of our profession is our citizenship, both personal and collective, and this is why I believe it is the only place to start.
My stories lend two lessons: Start now. Know life through experience. We as architects, designers, builders, are particularly equipped to do these two things. We are both the offenders of culture and the defenders of culture. Environmental design is both an expression of community and a source community. If what we do, at its core, is build responses to a context, then we are uniquely poised to be changemakers: we build beautiful, crazy, functional physical solutions, and we do it with optimism in the context of the here and now. Start now. Know life through experience.
When we talk about change, we often circle back to the well-known Gandhi quote: “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” I hope we can do him one better: Let’s build the change we wish to see.
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iOwnTheWorld.com » Blog Archive » Greg Gutfeld's advice for grads …
May 12th, 2012GREG GUTFELD:
So, commencement addresses are coming and nobody has asked me yet. But that’s not going to stop from doing one here.Actually, I’m not really commencing, I’m deprogramming. After all, it’s all about unlearning all that crud you accrued in college. Remember all those classes you took on symbolism, gender oppression, patriarchy and deconstructionism? Forget them.
Liberal arts are no help out here. Academia sent you to do battle with a silly straw not a sword. And though most speakers praise college while condemning the rat race, the opposite is the case, that the rat race is where you start at zero and you flourish.
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Fun Psychic Readings Advice and Relationship Discussions 05/11 …
May 12th, 2012The Judge Neil Show, hosted by Judge Neil and Judge Jen. The show focuses on advice, readings or discussion on life, love, family and relationship issues. We’ll delve into the heart of the issue, help you weigh your options, and provide insight and encourgement.
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I Love 1st Grade: Need Help/Advice
May 9th, 2012
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Of Woods and Words: On Dishing Out Advice
May 9th, 2012Remember when I reviewed Anne Lamott’s Some Assembly Required? I just might have forgotten to mention how much I identified with Lamott’s struggle not to give her 20-year-old son and his girlfriend (who also happened to be new parents) unsolicited advice. You see, I suffer from something we’ll refer to as “older sibling syndrome.”
I have wonderful, lovely, smart, funny (etc, etc.) brother who is sixteen months younger than I. But pretty much as soon as he was born, I took on the unofficial role of being his second mother. Seriously, when I was little, the thing I got in trouble for most consistently was bossing him around. Oops . . .
As we’ve grown older, I’ve transitioned from being Miss Bossypants to the unsolicited adviser. I’d say I try to keep my opinions to myself, but we all know opinions spew out of me like a waterfall. And ever since our visit to MI last month to catch up with brother and girlfriend, I’ve been damn near brimming with great advice for him.
Oh, that need to advise . . . All of those great ideas that literally churn through my mind about how other people could live their lives more happily and efficiently and be more fiscally secure. Oh, all those decisions I wouldn’t have made “if I was them.”
I was talking to my friend Sarah yesterday, who also has a younger brother.
“I don’t know why they don’t take our awesome advice,” I complained. “I mean, look how together our lives are.”
[insert snorts and ROFLing here]
Why do older sisters feel so drawn to dispensing largely unwanted advice? Because we really want to help? Or because we want to be right?
I suspect a mixture of both of the reasons stated above lead us to dispense vats of unsolicited advice. Certainly we older sisters are motivated by a rather smug feeling that we know best. (After all, I’ve been on Earth a whole 16 months longer than my sibling.) But we also feel like when we dispense our advice we’re strapping the equivalent of a bike helmet on our siblings.Yet I suspect if you asked your siblings they’d say we’re overbearing and trying to swaddle them in a big ol’ bubble.
No one likes unsolicited advice. I’ve certainly received enough of it to know how unpleasant being on the receiving end of it can be. But despite that little voice that tells me to let others figure it out on their own, I’m still learning to bite my tongue.
Do you suffer from older sibling syndrome? Have you been on the butt end of older sibling syndrome?
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